Separation is never easy, especially when children are involved. Many parents feel overwhelmed by the legal process, unsure how to protect their children while navigating new family dynamics. That is where a family mediator in Leeds can help.

This guide will walk you through the family mediation process, from initial consultation to final agreement. You will gain clarity on how mediation works, what to expect in your sessions, and how it can help you avoid the stress, cost, and conflict of court proceedings.

What Does a Family Mediator Do?

A family mediator is a trained, impartial professional who helps separating or separated parents reach practical agreements about:

Child arrangements
Parenting schedules
Holiday contact
Financial responsibilities

Unlike a solicitor or judge, a mediator does not take sides. Instead, they guide you through structured conversations to find mutual solutions that work for your family.

Family mediation in Leeds typically involves one or more joint sessions, where both parties are supported to express their needs and work collaboratively. At Turning Point Mediation, we combine professional expertise with lived experience, ensuring each session feels supportive, fair, and productive.

Step-by-Step: What to Expect from the Family Mediation Process

Before joint mediation can begin, each parent must attend a MIAM, a confidential, one-to-one meeting with a mediator.
At this session, the mediator will:
- Explain how mediation works
- Discuss whether mediation is suitable for your situation
- Answer any questions or concerns you have
Learn more about MIAMs on our FAQs page
If both parents agree to proceed, joint sessions will be scheduled. These may take place:
- Face-to-face in Leeds (e.g., Moortown, Roundhay)
- Online via secure video
- In separate rooms (shuttle mediation), if needed
Each session focuses on:
- Key areas of disagreement (e.g. where the child lives, schooling)
- Exploring options and compromises
- Building a parenting plan
Once you agree on a solution, your mediator will draft a Memorandum of Understanding, which outlines the terms.
If finances were discussed, an Open Financial Statement is also produced.
These documents can be reviewed by your solicitor and turned into a Consent Order, making them legally binding.

Why Choose Mediation Over Court?

Faster Resolution: Court cases can take months. Mediation can resolve issues in weeks.
Lower Cost: Family mediation often costs a fraction of legal proceedings.
More Control: You make the decisions, not a judge.
Child-Focused: Mediation protects children from conflict.
Private & Confidential: Everything stays between you and the mediator.

Local Expertise from a Trusted Family Mediator in Leeds

Founder Anna Robinson established Turning Point Mediation after 18 years running a childcare company and overcoming personal challenges, including serious illness. Her approach is: