What is MIAM in Leeds & Across Yorkshire
If you are separating, co‑parenting, or facing a family dispute, you may have been told you need to attend a MIAM before applying to court. A MIAM, short for Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting, is often the first formal step in the family mediation process.
At Turning Point Mediation, we provide clear, supportive MIAM appointments in Leeds & Across Yorkshire, helping parents and families understand their options, reduce anxiety, and explore whether mediation could help them resolve issues without court.
A MIAM is not mediation itself, and it is not about forcing you to agree to anything. It is about giving you clear information, reassurance, and professional guidance at an early stage.
Qualified family mediator with civil and commercial mediation training
Calm, confidential, one‑to‑one MIAM appointments
Clear explanation of legal requirements and next steps
Focus on keeping families out of court where possible
Online MIAMs available where appropriate
Why Clients Choose Turning Point Mediation for MIAMs
In most family cases, yes.
Before applying to the family court for matters involving children or finances, applicants are usually expected to attend a MIAM. This requirement exists to encourage people to consider mediation before starting court proceedings.
A mediator will confirm whether mediation is appropriate. If it is not suitable, the mediator can complete the relevant section of the court form to allow the application to proceed.
If you are unsure how this fits into the wider family court process, our articles on the pros and cons of family court and ways to avoid family court provide helpful context:
Is a MIAM legally required in the UK?
What does MIAM stand for?
MIAM stands for Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting. It is a private, individual meeting between you and a trained family mediator.
The purpose of a MIAM in Leeds is to:
Explain what family mediation is and how it works
Assess whether mediation is suitable for your situation
Discuss alternatives to court proceedings
Provide information required by the family court
Help you make an informed decision about next steps
You can learn more about the wider role of mediation in resolving disputes in our guide on the role of mediation in conflict resolution here.
What happens during a MIAM appointment?
A MIAM appointment in Leeds is designed to be supportive, structured, and confidential.
Before the MIAM
You book an individual appointment
Each parent or party attends separately
The session usually lasts around 45 to 60 minutes
During the MIAM
Your mediator will:
Explain the mediation process clearly
Discuss the issues you are facing
Assess safety, suitability, and willingness to mediate
Answer any questions about mediation or court
Explain what happens next, whether mediation proceeds or not
This meeting is about information and choice, not pressure.
You may find it helpful to read What to Expect from a Family Mediator, which explains the full process in more detail.
Does attending a MIAM mean I have to mediate?
No. Attending a MIAM does not mean you must proceed with mediation. The meeting exists so you can understand your options properly.
If mediation is not suitable or you decide not to continue, the mediator will explain your alternatives and, where appropriate, complete the necessary paperwork for court.
If mediation is suitable and both parties agree, the next step may be family mediation or co‑parent planning, which you can read more about here.
Who should attend a MIAM?
A MIAM appointment is usually required when there is a dispute relating to:
Child arrangements
Co‑parenting and communication
Financial matters following separation
Each person attends their own MIAM, even if the issues are shared.
For parents who need additional support around child contact, you may also find our guidance on child contact centres helpful:
How long does a MIAM take?
A typical MIAM in Leeds lasts 45 to 60 minutes. This allows enough time for:
Clear explanation of mediation
Proper assessment of suitability
Discussion of your individual circumstances
What happens after the MIAM?
After your MIAM appointment, one of the following outcomes usually applies:
Mediation proceeds, if suitable and agreed
Shuttle mediation is considered if direct discussion is difficult
The mediator confirms mediation is not appropriate and signs the court form
If you want guidance on choosing the right mediator before proceeding, read our article on how to choose your family mediator.
Frequently Asked Questions about MIAMs
Is a MIAM confidential?
Yes. MIAM appointments are confidential, except in limited circumstances involving safety concerns.
Can I bring a solicitor to a MIAM?
MIAMs are usually attended alone, but you are free to seek legal advice separately.
What if the other parent refuses to attend a MIAM?
You can still attend your own MIAM. The mediator will explain what happens next.
Is a MIAM suitable if communication has broken down?
Yes. The MIAM assesses suitability, including options such as shuttle mediation.
Book your MIAM today
If you are feeling unsure, overwhelmed, or confused about the next steps, a MIAM appointment can provide clarity and reassurance without commitment.
Turning Point Mediation offers supportive, professional MIAMs in Leeds and Yorkshire, focused on helping families move forward with confidence.
Call us today on 0333 888 0659 or email admin@turningpointmediation.co.uk to book your free initial consultation.